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Bit of Advice please

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spaceyface89 · 04/05/2019 18:15

I'm new here and I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this post but here goes...

My daughter's father is taking me to court again. He has a long history of EA, intimidation, control etc.

This morn, ( Saturday) he turned up early morning to the home of one of daughter's nursery staff, demanding info on daughter's progress, wanting staff mobile number etc. Staff member felt v intimidated and contacted me about it. She let him in but was v threatened. Apparently she was in her nighty on the sofa when he arrived. Ex has never done drop offs or pick ups so they've never met.

I can't believe he's done this. Apparently he wasn't aggressive but very forceful. I had to apologise profusely to her. I want to raise it with his solicitor. Am I right to? Should I drop it? Any advice?

OP posts:
spaceyface89 · 04/05/2019 20:26

Thanks Indietara, really helpful to hear. At the moment it’s just one thing after another and he just fills me with fear cos he’s constantly got something up his sleeve. The worst thing is it’s never about daughter’s welfare. It makes me so angry

OP posts:
IndieTara · 07/05/2019 07:50

Yes it's horrible isn't it. I just hold onto the anger and try to channel that energy Into something a bit more positive if I can.

It's been a long haul but it has got easier

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