DH's ex is a CF!

[Justwantaneasylifenowplease]

DH has a terrible relationship with his DS's mother. Every time she gets into a challenging position she comes running to DH. It's been over 10 years since the break down of their short lived relationship. Most recent antic - She runs a small business, which often runs into trouble.
This week she needs 3k to keep business afloat and suggests DH pays a couple of invoices for her in his credit card. DH ignored her, next email was DH being invoiced by her For services never used. DH emailed back saying - sorry this has come to me by accident.
Is it just me or is this CF behaviour beyond belief?
Queue DSS's mum kicking off at us due to her financial position!!!

She hasn't also asked him for £400 for a soft play party has she?

@RoastOx 😂😂. Her son was only 5 I think so doesn't match the 10 y break up but good one!

Ignore her. Don’t reply to any of her messages unless they relate to DSS.

Let him deal with his Ex. Don't get involved.

@RoastOx That's exactly what I thought!

@Churchthecat Did she ever return to that thread?!

Oh lord, it’s you again. It’s between your husband and his ex. If he keeps engaging with her over matters that don’t involve their son, well then he can’t moan when she keeps coming back to him. Starting endless threads on here moaning about her (or your stepson) doesn’t seem to be improving matters.

This isn’t the ‘rich girlfriend of ex’ poster, this is the ‘I start endless threads about my husband’s ex wife/stepson’ one. Often doesn’t respond much and then name changes moaning about the situation over and over again.

@RoastOx No, shame

Roast Ox!

you again OP! Hahahahahaha.

I just scanned your other posts. You’re all as bad as each other. Poor kid stuck in the middle.

time passes verrry slooowwwly for some posters, still it gives her something to do, bets on her not coming back

Think OP will be name changing again.

This week she needs 3k to keep business afloat and suggests DH pays a couple of invoices for her in his credit card. DH ignored her, next email was DH being invoiced by her For services never used. DH emailed back saying - sorry this has come to me by accident.

Is it just me or is this CF behaviour beyond belief?

It's more than CF behaviour beyond belief. This is a gigantic red flag. If her business hasn't already gone bust it will PDQ, and her bank knows it. Your DH needs to send this back with a letter (not email or text) refuting the debt, otherwise he will be listed as a creditor – legally owing her the money – when it fails. I'm pretty certain this invoice is illegal, it's a fraud, an attempt to deceive her bank manager and/or accountant into thinking the business has assets it doesn't. He needs to keep a copy of the invoice and the letter sending it back.

You both need to keep a careful eye on this, OP, especially bearing in mind what she's been telling other people about her business. When dealing with her, always put things in writing.