Does he fancy me?

[Trixie82]

If a guy says that he really likes a woman as a person and also says that he thinks she’s beautiful, would you say that he fancies her?

I have a male friend (known each other about a year through work) who says that I’m a very ‘likeable’ person, ‘beautiful’, ‘feminine’, ‘elegant’, ‘kind’.

Does really liking someone plus finding them beautiful equal fancying in a guy’s mind??

Do you want him to 'fancy' you?

He's clearly very complimentary of you, do you like him in that way?
Does he flirt with you?
if you do like him like that then let him know,
Good luck

Please tell me he's not married. And neither are you.

does he flirt? seek you out at work?

Depends who he's talking to when he describes you like that.

If he's talking to a mate then nope.

If he's talking to someone at work he's being polite and may or may not.

No it doesn't always mean they fancy you.

I would say it may well do but it would also depend on the vibes he’s giving and how flirty he’s being.

I shook my magic eight ball and it said "absolutely no idea, why don't you talk to him about it?"

Probably enough to have sex with you but not enough to form a commitment.
Sounds like lipservice.

Are you fishing for these compliments?

He said the compliments to me directly. Not fishing.

Not married.

Yes, I’m very attracted to him.

He’s fairly flirty.

Definitely sounds like a possibility, OP! Men don’t usually compliment women they’re just pals with in that way.

Ask him if he wants to grab a drink after work one day!

Ummm 'I really like someone as a person' O would say no - as its a bit asexual. Meaning to me good company, good laugh, respect their opinions but friend zone only.
However, you say he is flirty, so that would mean a yes.

Is this the guy you lent the DVD to? It seems that you're... Not obsessed exactly but overthinking everything am awful lot here. I think you should probably just ask him for a drink and try to find out how he feels because this current situation seems like it might be driving you slowly mad! Hope you get together and you can chill out a bit about him.

Thanks everyone