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WeMarchOn · 02/05/2019 17:31

I was on public transport this morning going to airport (I went to a major city in UK) to come home, a guy was sat and another walked past accidentally hitting the guy sat down with his bag, the guy sat down made a remark about what had happened and the guy standing apologised, sat down guy said "you will be" I processed to step in which sat down guy wasn't happy with, I just told my Mum and she said what if he had a knife on him? I just didn't think and thought I should step in by saying he didn't mean to do it.
I'm rambling sorry.

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Bezalelle · 02/05/2019 17:33

Probably best to have just let it go, I reckon.

Batshittery · 02/05/2019 17:34

Why did you need to butt in? Knife or no knife was there any reason standing man couldn't explain for himself? How do you know he didn't mean it? (although not very likely)

Aquamarine1029 · 02/05/2019 17:36

Under those circumstances, I wouldn't have. You have to be very, very careful. You interfering could have possibly escalated the situation when it would have cooled down on it's own. It can be a very tough call to make.

ScreamingValenta · 02/05/2019 17:36

When you say you stepped in, what exactly did you do?

Hollowvictory · 02/05/2019 17:38

What a non event

ShitAtScarbble · 02/05/2019 17:38

What did you do? Twat him one?

Pretty dumb to put yourself in the firing line. What were you hoping to achieve?

WeMarchOn · 02/05/2019 17:39

I mean by mediate, the guy looked very timid and scared.
I just said to him that he didn't mean to do it, he proceed to give me dirty looks for rest of the trip

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SnuggyBuggy · 02/05/2019 17:39

I would only have stepped in as a last resort, it doesnt sound like you needed to involve yourself

Expressedways · 02/05/2019 17:41

There’s was absolute no need for you to step in. You risked further escalating the situation, putting yourself and careless bag guy at risk. Your Mum was right in my opinion.

WeMarchOn · 02/05/2019 17:42

@Hollowvictory as if I would post this if it wasn't true 🙄

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Hollowvictory · 02/05/2019 17:42

That's not mediating. It's commenting. Total non event why are you even giving this heads pace? Someone bumped someone else on a bus with their bag. They were rude. You commented. Er, think that's 8t

Hollowvictory · 02/05/2019 17:43

Of course it's true, nobody would make this up would they. Its a non event. Which means it's totally irrelevant and unimportant

Honeyroar · 02/05/2019 17:43

I’d probably have done the same! I constantly get my self into trouble. It’s sad that most people walk past and do nothing nowadays!

WeMarchOn · 02/05/2019 17:44

@Hollowvictory my point is my Mum thinks i was stupid to put myself in a situation that could have turned bad

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WeMarchOn · 02/05/2019 17:46

@Honeyroar exactly, the guy sat down and he got told to move because he didn't want him there, he quietly moved and I said just ignore him, i then got asked why i was getting involved and that's when I said it was an accident, he then proceeded to say he doesn't like anything touching him apart from rose petals 🤔

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WeMarchOn · 02/05/2019 17:48

I swear you couldn't make this shit up

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Robin2323 · 02/05/2019 18:32

Thank you for sticking up for the underdog.
Actually hope I'd do the same.
I'm sure he was grateful.
Just trust your instincts.

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