My boyfriend is 26 and still lives at home, around 85% of his income is disposable because of this. He gets paid around the 25th of every month.
I live on my own with my two DDs and money is very tight for us, little to no disposable income. Last month was DD10s birthday and due to unexpected circumstances I was a little short of money, I managed to get most of it together but was £15 short which my boyfriend offered to lend me which is now paid back so all good.
Today he's asked me to send him money for his lunch and lend him £40 next week. He told me he's lent most of his money out to friends and family with no regard for the rest of the month and he has two nights out planned at the weekend. I told him I can't afford to do that and if money is tight he should cancel a night out which he's refusing to do. Now he's in a strop and all I'm getting is "well I lent you money" which is all fine and well but I really can't afford to go without the £40 till the end of the month when he next gets paid.
Relationship hasn't been great anyway although we seemed to be getting back on track the last month or so, now I'm back to thinking that it's just not going to work if he's going to act so childish over cancelling a night out he can't afford due to his own stupidity.
I'm NBU am I?