To think that....

[PinkGlitter123]

Dating a separated person (Separated officially for a month from past marriage)is fairly easy if you are just going on dates and hotel trips and that the difficulties start when you start living together and blending families?

Yes YABU

• one month is a terribly short time after the separation, and dating that quickly is not a good idea. The person is unlikely to have deal tithball the Stuff that comes with the ending of a marriage, both practically and emotionally.
• if you've only being seeing someone for less than a month, it's way to soon to be anticipating cohabitation. Why sucha rush?

A month out of marriage I would think it would be nothing more than a rebound thing.

I think if you go in knowing that is likely then it may be ok.

Depends.
Are there children involved? Were they separated for a long time before they finally settled for the divorce?

When me and my ex separated after 10 years together I was ready to date again after 2 weeks because in my head, I had already ended the relationship months before. I just needed to find the courage to leave since it was a very abusive one.

Everyone is different, it really depends on the situation.

Can someone new help soften the blow of the end of a marriage though?