Hi, I think I need to get some opinions. Me and ex broke up when daughter was under a year. Got back together, and broke up again. He was the reason I broke it off with him, not trustworthy, didn't pull his weight financially, just played games all the time. Roll on a year later, and things have gotten really bad.
He seems to want revenge on me because I technically broke up him and the girl he was seeing, because he also was getting with me at the time. She was his gf, he told me they split up, turned out they hadn't really and were still seeing each other and he was seeing both of us at same time. I told her, she dumped him. I thought they had broken up, I wouldn't have gone near him otherwise. A week later he got with a new girl, and me and him carried on not speaking except for our child. Both annoyed at each other! This new girl seems to have taken over and my ex has totally changed.
He decided to introduce this gf (the old one he never introduced btw) after a few weeks and her kids as well, and didn't tell me until I heard it from our child. He said it was none of my business. I messaged his new gf, just say I didn't agree with it, but she deleted the message. He refuses to see my point of view that it's too early on to introduce, and the texts between us got toxic as we disagreed. Next thing he has blocked me on all social media, saying I don't need to know about his life. I honestly don't understand it, as we have always been friends on there etc. He's become totally unreasonable and all of a sudden just really really hates me. I'm sure it's his new girls influence as she blocked me too.
He's causing me so much stress right now, I can't deal with even speaking to him. We share a text each day that our toddler isn't aware of, just a one word answer, yes to if she's okay. That's it. It's totally pointless really. I really don't want any contact with him unless emergencies etc. He sees her twice a week, his choice (I tried to fight for more once upon a time but he told me he only wanted to see her twice).. Is it unreasonable to stop the daily messages and just limit the contact to when she sees him, or perhaps just one message?
I'm so stressed out by him having to have daily communication, it's affecting our child. The child feels my stress.
Anyone else have no contact between the father's visits? And can I legally do this?
Thanks