Third date tomorrow with a new guy - he’s really nice and we get on well - seem to have same sense of humour and could spend hours on his company. He seems like he really likes me and has said as much, is also looking for something serious whereas i don’t really know what I want just yet (9 year age gap, im mid 20s). Physically he is attractive but different from my usual type and I haven’t felt huge physical chemistry just yet. We also kissed, a lot, on the last date and he was into it but it was a bit wet fish for me if I’m honest. Seeing each other again and I’m feeling a bit underwhelmed - I really want it to work as I like him a lot but the kissing and physical bit/lack of is a bit worrying. I have been head over heels for men before and it’s really important to have that!! What to do?