Ds’s college want to end his placement after an incident. We went to a meeting with the local authority. They told the college that at this time these not enough evidence to them for the college to say they can’t meet his needs. They have offered the college a form to complete and told them them it has to be sen tribunal standard. Now to me and my ds this indicates they agree with them and are planning on taking it to tribunal. Ds was asked what he wanted and he said to stay where he was but he know that was unlikely to happen. The la rep said “you don’t know that we get to decide” aibu to think that’s unfair to play with his feelings? And would just be easier for all involved if they disagreed now rather than delaying.