Non molestation order

[Sallycomo1]

Hi I’m looking for some help regarding a non molestation order issued by my ex partner on me
The order went to court we were both present I disputed the allegations in the order that she made as they was all false but I accepted the order as I didn’t want her contacting me anymore..
Now a month later she has sent me text messages which I haven’t replied to but just found out she has been contacting my children which I have from a previous relationship and my kids are confused she’s told them they can talk but not when my kids are in my care at a weekend.
But she’s been messaging them when they’ve told her they are with me.
What should I do ? I don’t want her contacting me and I’m not happy she’s contacting my children. My children love her as a step mum and I know she cares a lot about them but I think it would be better if she just left us all to move on rather then keeping contact
I’m at a loss what to do

How old are your children. Considering the circumstances I would ask the children to block.

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She is no longer their step-mother and as she has no parental responsibility has no right to contact them. As she had to get a Non-Molestation Order against their father even more so as it undermines her own case.

If the children were adults who didn't live at home then it's their choice who they have contact with.