Wibu

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Petty I know but I've had enough!! Me and ex have recently split we have given it another go and it's just not working, at the moment we are living together in separate rooms till the house sells, anyhow here's my aibu, I have asked him so many times not to put his sweaty smelly football clothes in the wash unless he is going to actually put the wash on, so yday I went to use the washing machine to find it hadn't been washed so I put his washing on, he's still not hung it out so wibu to just put it in a basket and leave for him to have to rewash it himself or do I do it for him?
This is the man who promises to have more kids get married etc and then doesn't follow through, also the man who allowed his mum to bully me and not do anything!! Xx

Not unreasonable at all. You're being very restrained. You're not sticking it in the bin. . .

I would have just taken them out the wash and left them on the floor. Why are you putting his washing on for him? Just leave it for him, why do you feel as though you should be doing these things for him?

I wouldn't have even washed them for him nevermind dry them

Yes why did you put it on? Just take it out and get on with your own.

You've broken up, so just leave it in a basket outside the machine. You don't need to do his laundry.

What’s the problem with sweaty sports kit in the washing basket? Just leave it there and do your own?

Thankyou for the replies, I was expecting to be told I'm being petty!!
It's in the basket by the machine not my problem anymore xx

What's wrong with putting dirty clothes in the laundry?!

I've asked him before not to put it in the family basket because it literally smells awful, think of someone who hasn't washed in weeks and worn the same clothes he has a separate basket to put it in if he doesn't wash it straight away xx