Looking for advice

[Fitta12344321]

im a man in my late 20s been married for 7 years and a child with my soon to be ex wife , we met when we were very young and married a year or so later , last year i went on a dating app and met a girl without the knowledge of my then wife and cheated on her i know this is bad and i understand my mistakes , long story short i fell in love with this woman and she fell in love with me we , my ex wife asked for another chance and been waiting for months until she finally said to her self its time to move on having noticed her stop trying to be with me i realised i can lose her for ever i dont love her the way i used to but the truth is i never gave her a fair chance , we havent got much in common we are always angry and very negative , the exact opposite when it comes to my new gf we are very happy and shes always smiley and happy and its a big attraction to me , i feel beause i never treated my ex wife the way i treated my gf i never bought her flowers and we didnt go out much for years , my dillema is for the sake of our child do i give my ex wife a chance and start treating her the way i trest my gf and see what happens or should i just move on and live happily ever after with my new gf.

Well, that depends what you mean by “see what happens if you treat your wife the way you treated your girlfriend”.

If you mean - if I buy her flowers, will she fuck me? Then leave the poor woman alone.

What you need to understand, is that you don’t get to just sweep your DISGUSTING behaviour under the carpet and “just” start buying her flowers. No - you have to genuinely apologise, and be committed to the long hard journey of rebuilding her trust.

You are too selfish, pathetic and weak to commit to that though, aren’t you?

You don’t love her, you just don’t want to live apart from your child. Which you should have thought of before you went actively looking for something else to fuck.

I’m actually quite sympathetic to people who cheat after a series of circumstances. Relationships are hard. I think cheating can be worked on and forgiven.

But selfish immoral arseholes who just decide to go on dating sites and lie to multiple women, actively seeking an affair? I don’t think that’s forgivable. Shame on you. Your wife can do better than selfish scum like you.

You’re also pathetic and just such a fucking cliché that you only want to try again now your wife has started to move on.

Typical of someone lacking in decent character, selfishly again - this is ALL about your ego.

Haha your new relationship started off shady and it's gonna end shady. Leave your ex alone, she deserves a million times better.

Grow up MF!