When you update your computer, do your draft emails get sent automatically?

[miamiibiza]

I'm in shock currently.

Last night I received screen shots from my partner's ex of an email that has been sent to them that day. Sent to them from my partner.

It was a lovey, gushing email basically saying that their biggest regret was losing them, and that she wishes everyday she hadn't chosen the alternative path (me?!)

My partner denies sending it. She said she wrote it a year ago, and her computer had an update which automatically sent all her email drafts.
Is this possible?

The ex girlfriend also sent me a couple of texts from my partner sent her 3 weeks ago, asking to talk.

I left my home last night, taking my 3 year old to my mums. I'm nearly 4 months pregnant too.

Any advice? Or words of wisdom.

I think the relationship is over, but my partner is adamant that she's done nothing wrong.

Sounds like it's over, as they were trying to get back with the ex. Somebody doing that would be likely to look for somebody else in the future in any case, even if their lies and excuses were believed.

I do think it's hard on you for their ex to send you the messages, but if they were also on the end of cheating, which it sounds like they were, they're probably still angry themselves and to be contacted by their cheating ex in an attempt to cheat again, but this time on a pregnant partner? Well, it's entirely the cheater's fault, as there wouldn't have been an issue had they not been sniffing back around.

I think thats what you call opening your mouth and your brains flying out - how the op is pregnant doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out and in any case, has sod all to do with her question.

Some folks just can't help themselves though can they

Sorry you're having a difficult time. If any email provider did this there would be lengthy news articles about their big screw-up; it hasn't happened.

No, I have never heard of that happening to anyone ever.

Given that she was also texting her 3 weeks asking to talk, it seems pretty clear your partner is lying to you about the email. Sorry.

Well done OP!

I am sorry this has happened but like you say, you'll get strength from your little ones. That will see you through. Be strong for them.