To pine for my old married lover

[Lolly34h]

I'm pining so bad. I know I can't see him but god I want to

I know that feeling... Stay strong!

I think it’s quite normal to miss people youwere once close to.

I met him and he told me he was single and getting divorced. Someone messaged me on social media and told me he was married and stuff. I stopped immediately. He was the best sex I've ever had made me feel like I've never felt before and god I miss him

Still pining

Just remember how he made you into the other woman without your consent.

Surely the lack of respect he had for you, should help get rid of any feelings of missing him

Its does and then I have a flash back of how he made me feel and I crave him and that feeling again

But how he made you feel was a lie.

He didnt respect you or care about you. He thinks your feelings mean nothing. You were someone to fuck.

He was good in bed, that was it. But surely you can find someone good in bed who actually values you as a human being.

This is exactly what I need to hear

You deserve more than lies and deceit. You are worth more than that.

Been there done that. Remembering all the old feelings. Then forcing myself to remember I was only good enough for a quick shag whilst being with someone else and lying about it

This WILL pass I promise. Remember your value

I was the OW for four years over twenty-five years ago. I knew the score but I loved him. The sex was fantastic. He made me laugh. I accompanied him on business trips and stayed in luxurious hotels in exotic locations. It was a fantastic time and I still occasionally think about these times with nostalgia. About once a year I even get out the photos and smile over them. I suppose now I’ll get posters berating me and doing the what about his poor wife stuff. No, I didn’t give her a thought, still don’t. Wouldn’t do it now but don’t regret a single minute.

This is exactly what I need to hear

I hope so. I dont mean to be harsh, but you need to see him for what he was.