I've put my hard hat on and am ready to be flamed. We have quite a lot of baby things brand new with tags that are either too small for DS now or we will never dress him in. I'm genuinely not ungrateful but a lot of the things were gifts and just not things we would dress him in, think the fancy Spanish outfits with ruffled bum and pompom socks, designer tracksuits, branded clothing with huge logos, things with twee slogans across the front. We've been very careful about what we've bought and chose quality simple things that could be mixed and matched and have lasted well (DS is tiny so clothing does last a while). DH has had a blunter word with MIL than I would've, to stop her wasting her hard earned money, after 'oh you really funny need to keep buying things we've plenty' didn't work. Some things came from others but not much as people know our taste. I'm keeping things DS has grown out of that are in good condition until I'm certain we won't have another, but these things we wouldn't put on any child of ours, but it is simply a matter of taste the is nothing wrong with them at all. Some things I've donated to the local refuge but some of the more expensive things I feel guilty about just giving away. My thinking was could I sell them and put the money into something for DS so MILs expense isn't completely without benefit to the intended recipient? I can't use FB as she will see and I don't want to upset her. I'm not sure eBay is worth it with the hassle of posting and fees etc. Any ideas?