to worry about abusive ex turning up?

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A while back I posted about my ex cancelling an appointment at the hospital for my son in order to spite me.

The hospital promised they wouldn't inform anyone other than me of any appointments and that this was added as an alert on the system.

I just phoned to ask where in the hospital I needed to go for the appointment and they told me. I also asked if they could confirm that my ex wouldn't have the details. She said 'I couldn't possibly tell you, why?' I explained that there should be a note on the system saying he isn't to know any details. She said 'I can't see anything here, oh, hang on a sec if I open the notes I'll see what it says' - then she saw the note about not giving him access.

AIBU to think this is an awful safeguarding system and to be scared to turn up now as I feel like he's going to be there? I'm panicking a bit.

Guess I'll just have to go and hope for the best..

Can anyone go with you OP?

I would ring the outpatients manager and PALS and tell them what you told us, it might be flagged up on their computer system as well as the notes. If you're still concerned you could ask for a change in date, ortake someone with you.

Apologies - wrong post. I will ask MNHQ to remove.