To think more people that we realise have separate beds - and that may be a good thing!

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I have, somehow, been discovering that quite a few of my long time married friend have separate bedrooms to their Husbands.

I am wondering if this is more common than first thought.
It makes a lot of sense when you think about it. If you have the room then a bed to yourself sounds great- all the room, all the blankets, no unidentified man smells, reading in bed until late, not having to watch shed and bloody buried ..............AIBU to think this may be the ideal?

I love shed & buried but agree separate rooms/homes are perfect for a happy life together.

@ALongHardWinter that's our set up 💪 we are very much in love, happy and have a great sex life. When we do decide to live together I think we will have separate rooms. Neither of us likes sharing a bed and he has the worse snoring I've ever known

There was a threat on it last week. Way more common than people think.
It's a bliss

DH and I have barely shared a bed since we’ve been together. People think it’s weird but we both snore and disturb eachother, plus I have issues with my joints and struggle with sleeping.
It works for us.