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Should I complain about this?

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YorkshireBelle2019 · 24/04/2019 09:45

Hi!

I am applying to retrain this year in healthcare and have to do a certain amount of work experience in the field. I have arranged a mix of different volunteering experiences but work full time so it will probably go to the wire in terms of me completing the required number of hours.

I have started volunteering at 2 places and arranged a week helping in residential respite but a nursing home offered me 120 hours in the evenings which would've been super helpful and a big chunk of the requirement. I did an interview and the DBS process in about December or Jan then they have been putting off confirming the start date since. I called yesterday and neither the manager nor the administrator would speak to me, instead asked the receptionist to let me know they could no longer offer unpaid work. I asked why not and she eventually said something about the manager retiring in a hurry next week. I have no idea why this would affect me. I was polite but made clear why this was disappointing (fully aware it wasnt her fault).

I just don't get why they couldn't have let me know this weeks or months ago and the people I was dealing with didn't have the decency to tell me themselves! It doesn't leave me entirely stuck as I have the other volunteering work but could have done if I was relying on the hours they had offered.

Would you just leave it or write the manager and admin an email explaining why I am disappointed? I know I wouldve been working unpaid but it was for a reason and I'm sure they wouldn't do this after offering someone a paid job.

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NoBaggyPants · 24/04/2019 09:52

People applying for paid jobs get this all the time, including turning up on the day and being told the job is no longer available.

I'd let it go, a letter or email isn't going to change the situation and you may end up working with these people in future.

Perhaps they realised the legal implications of offering unpaid work and that it's too much hassle?

bellabasset · 24/04/2019 09:53

I don't see the harm in putting it in writing and expressing your disappointment. However accept that as they didn't have the courtesy to tell you that they were no longer able to offer you a volunteer placement you are likely to get no response.

YorkshireBelle2019 · 24/04/2019 10:09

Nobaggypants that's terrible. I suppose it happened to me as a teenager with some bar work once but I was a student so didn't have a family or no other source of income.

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