AIBU? So my sister in law doesn’t really bother with my children unless she needs to lend money or needs my oh to do her a favour.. so over the bank holiday she’s phoned to lend money and my oh been a soft touch said yes ( I think he was hoping she’d call before I had got back from my nephews party as this has caused many arguments) anyway while she was there my children refused to talk to her my youngest wouldn’t let me put him down she asked me just to pass him to her and I said no I wasn’t upsetting my child she then began saying she’s their auntie and should be allowed to hold him etc now normally when she’s around I bite my tongue when she makes comments about being an auntie and how they’re her favourites and her babies, but I snapped and said your an auntie when it suits you when you need something my boys don’t even know her name that’s how little she sees them. The worst part is my oh is now giving me the silent treatment, but he knows I want my kids to know their family know where they come from my brother travels from Scotland ever two weeks to visit his sister lives 10 minutes away.. was I in the wrong? Should I apologise?