DD 18 has had a new boyfriend for just over 8 months he plays football and is currently on loan with a club elsewhere in the U.K. he comes home regularly to here as his family still lives here and stays with us a few nights while he’s here. She also travels there for games and weekends away. He is very lovely and I know DD is happy with him.
He has said to DD that they’re in talks about buying him or trying to keep him in the next window and wants the two of them to move in together there.
My issue is it’s been very much a whirlwind relationship and has moved very quickly, she also has an apprenticeship down here and it’s a good one as well with the NHS - not an opportunity that comes along often. I’ve told her I don’t think it’s a smart idea at the moment and perhaps they should wait until winter or next year summer which has caused a big argument and she’s gone to stay with a friend tonight.
Perfectly willing to be told IABU