This is an AIBU but more of a WWYD?
My dc attends an afterschool activity, really enjoys it and I think it's very beneficial.
I received an email saying that I have to 'volunteer' to support the activity with a whole page list of duties to be undertaken on a rota basis.
I then received the rota and a contact list of all the people who attend any of the activities (not just the people who attend the same activity as my dc) with their home and mobile phones on.
If I can't do the date I have been given then I have to use the rota to find out which parents attend the same activity my dc does and then go to the contact list to find their number and ring them to ask them to swap with me.
My AIBU is that I haven't given my permission for my contact details to be given out in this way (so assume no-one else has either) and I don't really want my contact details out there due to being estranged from a family member. Obviously that has happened now and I can't change it but AIBU and WWYD? I don't want to unnecessarily rock the boat for dc's sake but also feel very annoyed that my information has been shared in this way.