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Neighbours burnt my fence

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Mamalicious16 · 19/04/2019 16:36

Backstory - neighbour is selling his home to his son ( son currently living there) & son has MH issues ( was a doorman - took steroids etc ). Last year he threw himself out of his window ( son ) as he'd argued with his g/f and ( although banned) took the car and damaged 3 neighbours cars. Has always been aggressive with me ( am single mum and he's a bully imo ). So I got new fence last year at the back due to the old one being knackered. It's 6ft so I thought I'll have as little to do with him as possible plus he has aggressive dog ( I had a 3 yr old dd). All fine then his dad rings me demanding why I haven't consulted him ( dad) and sensing his old knackered fence back ( builder had taken to tip as it was about 20 years old and wrecked)

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Passthecherrycoke · 19/04/2019 17:56

I agree foxmuffin I think the responsibility of the fence is a moot point now. What’s done is done, OP will just have to accept a burnt fence and hope that it all quietens down. She’s already paid out for a whole new fence and dumped the old one so why do boundaries matter?

QueenBeex · 19/04/2019 18:10

Don't be too harsh on your self OP, many people get confused about who's responsibility said side of the fence is.

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