A family member died and my siblings and I are in the will, according to my father. However; I am more or less NC with father (only communication for a year has been around this matter/funeral arrangements etc), and I think he is using/going to use this situation as a way to force contact with siblings and me, as he is the executor. How do we find out the contents of the will that are relevant to us without waiting for him to string it out for as long as possible? Death was a month ago, funeral has happened etc.