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Nursing or beauty?

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CupOhTea · 14/04/2019 14:14

I’m a sahm to two dcs. I have a degree, (mediocre mark in a European language & humanities), from a top notch university. After I graduated we had to move around a bit with dh’s job, so I just took anything I could find. Mainly admin, HR support, hospitality and retail. I had quite a good admin job when I had dc1 but then the industry I was working in took a total nosedive and my office closed, so I was made redundant. Since then, dc2 has come along and dc1 is about to start school.

I’ve been looking recently for ways to get back to work.

I have looked into things like nursing. But, as wonderful as it sounds, I just don’t think we could make it work. I’d probably get another student loan to cover the fees, (as it is one of the courses where the student loans company will do this apparently), but then we’d need to pay for childcare as we have no regular help from family.

Where we live, dc2 alone would cost close to £16,000 per year, for full time childcare (somewhere around £15,600). Then we would need wrap around care for dc1 for before and after school. Then there would be the school holidays. So, by the time I actually qualified as a nurse we’d have spent a lot of money to get me there and then I’d have even more student debt. I’m not sure we can justify it.

I don’t know if I’d qualify for any grants etc as our household income is too high, (so fair enough), and since I’ve already got one degree.

Recently, I’ve been thinking about studying beauty therapy. Although it’s obviously very different to nursing, I can see some similarities, like caring for the wellbeing of clients, studying the anatomy, just making people feel better, being a hands on job etc. I have always been interested in beauty and make up etc, but never seriously considered it as a career before now.

I may be way off the mark and I’m really just brainstorming here, but does anyone have any experience of training as a beauty therapist in late(r) life? I’m not exactly ancient, (36), but compared to some people who start training in beauty therapy at the age of 16, I might be!

It would be a shorter course I think, with less demanding hours and would be much cheaper, which are plus points. Also, after I qualify, I have read that it can be quite a flexible job in some cases, which would work well round my family.

I have also thought about becoming a carer, as that is closely allied to nursing, but the areas of nursing that I really wanted to eventually do were quite different to the caring jobs which seem to come up in my area. It wouldn’t be a stepping stone to nursing as I truly think that’s off the table for the foreseeable future as it’s just too prohibitive financially. I would be being a ‘career carer’, if that’s the right term, so I don’t want to do that unless it is something I’m truly passionate about.

Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

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MitziK · 14/04/2019 14:29

I think Beauty would be a lot better for you in terms of both fitting around the children and because you'll have the potential to run your own business - you could then choose to provide therapy to, say, hospital patients, the elderly, etc, if you wanted a 'caring' element to your work.

Caring and Nursing, I think, are only even vaguely worth it if you are absolutely 100% certain it is what you have to do to be happy because the pay, work, conditions and hours aren't.

CupOhTea · 14/04/2019 14:32

you could then choose to provide therapy to, say, hospital patients, the elderly, etc, if you wanted a 'caring' element to your work.

Oh I hadn’t thought of that! What a fab idea!

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missyB1 · 14/04/2019 14:34

Yep beauty rather than Nursing if you need something family friendly. I was a nurse for 26 years, childcare was a bloody nightmare!

Justonemorepancake · 14/04/2019 14:34

I know a few people who have trained in microblading recently and are raking it in. You could offer lower rates for those who have hair loss due to treatment like chemo. You can then add to it with HD brow training, lash lifts etc.

Krimpy · 14/04/2019 14:35

Nursing is a poorly paid slog and first you'd have to to years of study to get there. Beauty therapy seems to be an ever booming business with family friendly hours and the potential to own your own business. A friend of mine did a beauty therapy course in her early forties, was a bit nervous of being surrounded by 18 year olds but ended up having a great time and now works in a luxury spa.

BasilBrushes · 14/04/2019 14:36

If you have a degree already can you do the accelerated nursing course?

missyB1 · 14/04/2019 14:37

Meant to say when I had breast cancer I used to think it would be nice if there was a kind sympathetic beauty therapist I could go to, where I could get pampered and not feel self conscious or awkward. It sounds like you would be perfect for that!

thethoughtfox · 14/04/2019 14:37

There is a lot of money in lash extensions and microblading.

CupOhTea · 14/04/2019 14:41

Ah missy, what a lovely thing to say!

Thanks all, this is all great to hear. I’m going to look into college courses now. Excited Flowers.

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speakout · 14/04/2019 14:41

I have a daughter who has just started a nursing degree.

Be aware it is very hard to be accepted into a nursing course.

Full day interviews etc. Any potential student has to be very motivated and driven towards nursing as a vocation.
At two of the Universities my DD applied to qualified applicants outnumbered places by ten to one.

Pompello · 14/04/2019 14:42

These days people spend so much more money on beauty treatments compared to 20 or even 10 years ago. Gel nails, dermaplaning, eyelash extensions, microblading, laser hair removal, hot waxing, LVL lashes, male grooming...

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 14/04/2019 14:44

I had a similar decision to make in my 30's. Had a degree, didn't really want to do something that needed another degree, and needed to work round childcare. Did beauty at nightschool over 2 yrs. Started working for myself, mobile,mainly evenings, some work in the day when DD started school. Was able to go into sheltered housing and give them better rates as I was doing a job lot, so to speak. Later on I got the chance to teach beauty for the local authority, which I needed the degree for. Worked out pretty well really. There were still occasional childcare issues due to sports days being put off over about three weeks due to weather, etc, but much less than with other jobs.

CupOhTea · 14/04/2019 14:47

Well done to your dd then @speakout. I hope she enjoys it. It’s an amazing thing to do. Half my family are nurses and the rest are doctors and dentists 😂. Amazing people.

Ha! That’s amazing your first degree came in handy there @sponge. Funny how these things work outSmile.

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Twotinydictators · 14/04/2019 14:58

I have one sister who is a beauty therapist, has worked from home for around 10 years. She has progressed to microblading and lash extensions and she makes a lot of money. Some weeks it's over £1.5k. She does often work until 10pm Mon - Sat and Sundays if she needs to but can have a fair bit of time off during the day. She has recently moved and converted the garage into her salon; you do need a dedicated calm space.

The other sister worked in care homes since being a school leaver, up to Deputy Manager level. She has just taken a Healthcare Assistant position at a large London hospital and is going on a two year nursing course whilst in this role. She has always wanted to be a nurse and I think it's such a tough job that it needs to be something you have a passion for. She will be doing shift work too which would be difficult with kids (she doesn't have any). Shes on £21k which will rise over the years with qualifications and going up through the pay bands, but I think the max is c. £37k at the top of Band 6.

NWQM · 14/04/2019 16:09

Have you looked at allied health professions if you are interested in nursing. Physios for interest are in short supply. More 9-5 type jobs are available than in nursing.

Personally I can see advantages in both but for what it is worth it might be worth bearing in mind....

  • the really successful beauty therapists I know have actually invested quite a bit in training, business start up costs etc. You might need to do the sums carefully to make sure that you comparing this. Student loans are available for nursing and business start up grants for beauty therapists;
  • nursing and beauty therapy can mean very un family friendly hours. Term time options exist in nursing but largely in paediatrics - if this is what you want to do then look at health visiting, school nursing;
  • NHS has good terms and conditions still in terms or leave, pensions, sick pay and maternity pay. You'd likely be self employer in beauty therapy.

Could you do some voluntary work / shadowing of both to see what you would enjoy?

CurbsideProphet · 14/04/2019 16:13

I know someone who used to teach massage and beauty therapy at a Further Ed college. She taught on the course for adults 24+, so it would be worth checking if your local colleges offer separate courses for adults Smile

CupOhTea · 14/04/2019 16:36

Thanks - good points^^!

Physio etc I thought need a degree which I don’t know if I’d get a loan for... could be wrong though. Again, it’s the issue of doing another degree, so more debt, plus paying childcare which puts me off that.

Even with a loan I’d have student debts of £27k on top of my old student loan and then childcare as well. It just would need to be something extraordinarily worthwhile to induce me to do that. Nursing IS extraordinarily worthwhile I know, but then the hours after qualifying aren’t exactly easy with childcare and we have no regular help from family, so it would be pay through the nose for nursery & wrap around care or dh would have to quit his job, (he can’t quit his job if we want to stay where we live - our emergency plan if he suddenly lost his job would be to move away from here to somewhere cheaper).

I don’t know if physio would be something I’d be willing to get into so much debt for, considering I already have a degree and debt from that. It’s just so much money.

I have heard that it’s impossible to make decent money in beauty unless you own your own salon, but to be honest, just having a skill so I could get by would be fine with me. I’m not looking to be the next Liz Earle necessarily Grin!

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NWQM · 14/04/2019 16:47

If they accept your previous qualifications you'd do a 2 year conversion course for an AHP.

For me working with kids & other family commitments was hard - I'm currently a SAHM for now as a result. Like you I'm looking at 'what's next'. I'd say that any job you go for will some sacrifices so go with the on that is most likely to mean that you bounce out of bed in the morning.

You still have a lot of time to be working so maybe do what feels do able for now. It really doesn't necessarily preclude further change later.

CupOhTea · 14/04/2019 16:51

You still have a lot of time to be working so maybe do what feels do able for now. It really doesn't necessarily preclude further change later.

Yes, I was thinking this^^ too.

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RaeniaT · 13/07/2021 12:07

Hi there I know it’s a while ago but I just stumbled upon this thread and wondered if you went with beauty, how did it go?! I am a nurse thinking of jumping ship! X

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