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To feel this way or am I being daft?

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TakeTwoOfThat · 11/04/2019 11:31

So a many members on here might know my previous posts on my husband Leaving me after 15 years and then getting another woman pregnant straight away and then wanting to return us his 'family'

Anyway recently I've been feeling very angry, even though I 'over' him now after other recent events and my main focus now is my children and re building my life and I don't feel the 'love' anymore I once had for him so it's not that I still have past feelings as they do seem to be fading now after all things that have happened BUT recently started to get angry not sad but angry that he's having a baby with her, and that he will have another son soon. Our son together was special because he's our only son and our others are girls and I feel he's ruined that by having another son. I feel like my son will now get pushed to the back and hers will be the priority. I feel angry that him and her didn't even consider my other children and was having a baby within 2 months of knowing each other

Maybe I'm being daft or selfish. To know he's been to scans with her, buying baby stuff with her when that's something me and him did over 15 years it makes me angry that I put in all those years into our marriage and she comes along within 2 months and gives him a son when it's something we longed for for years.

I don't even know if it's wrong for me to feel this way

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kamikazeshady · 11/04/2019 11:39

I think you're well within your right to feel like that tbh. Any normal person certainly would. I know I would.

HBStowe · 11/04/2019 11:49

I think it’s a bit weird that you think your son is more special because your other children are girls. But I don’t think you are unreasonable generally - he has been a total shit and it’s no wonder you’re angry. Anyone would be.

TakeTwoOfThat · 11/04/2019 11:55

Thank you both
@HBStowe I can see how that's come across now! I didn't mean my son is more special then my girls I just meant we finally got our son that completed our family and I'm happy with my 4 daughters of course I am. What I meant was he's ruined the the fact our son was ours together and something we waited for. And then she comes along and gives him in in two months, feel like our excitement over our son means nothing now

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