So yesterday my husband and I had a row before bed.
Basically, earlier on in the evening I was about to play a video on my phone and I asked him if it would bother him if I played it out loud (as a courtesy.) He said he would prefer if I used my earphones, but that if I didn't have them it was fine, so I played the video (earphones downstairs.)
Later on he started playing a video out loud, and I said I would appreciate if he could ask me too as a courtesy because the video was loud and I was trying to read. I don't think I said this rudely. He then said 'oh it's always tit for tat with you' and got huffy and went to have a shower. I was annoyed at the way he spoke to me so went to sleep in a different room (can never sleep next to someone whose grumpy) and then came back into the bedroom as it was too cold.
DH was loving to me but I didn't like how he acted loving after being grumpy without acknowledging he had been a bit mean, so I said (again, not argumentatively) that I didn't understand why what I said had upset him. He said 'omg, one word PMS.' He knows I suffer with PMDD and so I don't appreciate this. He then told me to fuck off.
Was this an argument over nothing? Either way the way he spoke to me made me angry so I asked him to sleep downstairs as I won't be spoken to that way. He woke up this morning and stormed out saying nothing. I don't even feel angry - just not sure why he got so annoyed by what I said.