I used to make sure it was immaculate. Turf folk out of bed to wash bedding, be hoovering and dusting while mentally counting down how long before we need to leave yada yada yada.
Then I realised that stripping the beds the day we meant, meant an extra 2 loads of washing to come back to. That when we unpacked the cases, they were usually full of sandy clothes that got everywhere, that the dcs would want their souvenirs (ie bloody tat) out to show visitors. That if ee were getting back really early or really late the dcs and dh would be home all the next day making mess.
So now I do my normal weekly clean the day before we go, wash and dry bedding and put it back on, empty the fridge and bin. Leave bleach down the loos but not sinks incase the bleach damages any seals or pipes. The beds are still clean after 1 sleep, I don't have a fuckton of washing to do and because I have emptied the fridge we go out for tea the night before.
Then I wash and dry the holiday clothes, get them and the suitcases away and then do a big clean when everyone is back at work and school.
I don't get as stressed, dh and the dcs dont get shouted at and my holiday starts the night before with a pub tea.