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Is this creepy?

33 replies

PsychadelicPsall · 05/04/2019 22:31

Joking with guy on a dating app about some exercise I’m doing and said I was practising my high kicks... he then added “don’t forget to stretch before, don’t want you to pull your groin!” Then random chit chat. Ew. Otherwise he has seemed fine! How do I reply? Red flag?

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keenwasalad · 06/04/2019 07:38

GrinGrinGrin you told him you were practicing your high kicks???

MuttsNutts · 06/04/2019 07:41

Jeeeez. You sound neurotic.

BlackSatinDancer · 06/04/2019 07:42

He wasn't being creepy. I don't think this was even flirty. Sounds like he is into health and was literally saying you could pull a muscle in the groin if you don't warm up properly. Definitely not a red flag.

AnyFucker · 06/04/2019 07:44

Both as "creepy" as each other there

ushuaiamonamour · 06/04/2019 07:48

As others have pointed out, he was giving you useful advice. To me it's bizarre that you're worried about his being aroused by a common sports injury just as it is that a few posters seem to think that your mentioning high kicks was provocative. Right. A date once said to me 'You want to avoid build-up of lactic acid when you''re out on the course'' and because I knew what that really meant I throatily murmured 'anterior cruciate ligament, darling' and of course we immediately fell into bed.

No. Not creepy.

NaughtToThreeSadOnions · 06/04/2019 07:51

Giving you good exercise advise is neither creepy or flirty. Groin is not a sexual word.

Geez is gareth southgate flirting with the england football team when he tells them to warm up properly to avoid groin strains.
Are PT's being creepy when they tell their clients how to warm up to avoid groin strains.

You were flirting with him telling him you were doing high kicks. You were hoping for a flirty response instead you got a matter of fact sporty one.

Soinds like he might be the one going wiw this ladys a bit over the top flirty

SouthernComforts · 06/04/2019 14:02

Log it with 101 just to be safe

MiddleClassProblem · 06/04/2019 14:03

😂

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