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Cousin making political comments

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goldendoodles · 05/04/2019 12:04

My cousin is about 10 years older than I am, and we only see each other at Christmas, parties etc. I'm posting this now, as I'm expecting very soon and just bored at home.

For background he left school at 16, got an apprenticeship, floated about different jobs, but now has a permanent job in insurance sales (on the phones).

I studied really hard in school and he'd rib me for being a nerd. I luckily managed to get a good job working in finance in the city, and so make a very decent salary. That was after years of studying and university, exams and exams blah blah, you know the story.

Anytime I see him, he always makes a comment about tax. eg, The higher rate tax should be 60%. Graduates don't deserve such huge salaries. "You and your tory friends". He is very socialist and constantly puts down anyone that has a decent job as being a "selfish tory". I have never told him who I vote for, so this is quite amusing as we both voted for the same party in the last election.

How can I stop his constant belittling comments? I often ignore, or if I try and correct him on simple economic theory he just rolls his eyes and huffs, saying "I don't have enough life experience".( Erm, I'm pretty sure a Cambridge economics degree taught me more about taxation then his life experience has led him to understand!)

OP posts:
Inthehatbox · 05/04/2019 16:57

bgmama

inthehatbox we can't know who started it, we only have the OP's point of view.

hahahaha!

😂😂😂😂

I love it! Let’s invite the cousin here to give his side. Let’s invite all the other parties from all threads before we comment!

talkingjapeneseireallythinkso · 05/04/2019 17:34

inthebox i was referring to the few posters derailing / hijacking the thread over the 'for the love of mike' expression,not op's run in with the knob salesman.

Inthehatbox · 05/04/2019 17:43

talkingjapeneseireallythinkso

I know. I think the derailers are insurance salespeople!

floribunda18 · 05/04/2019 17:47

I tend to have the opposite problem. People assuming I have the same appalling Daily Mail views as them after a few beverages, and I put them straight on a few things.

extremehydration · 05/04/2019 17:49

Yeah, sorry about the derailing OP! The only good to come of it was that your thread had gone to sleep for 1 hour 45 minutes until I posted what was meant by a comment a pp had used that another poster wanted clarification on. Then it kind of escalated from there! Still, it got quite busy and now you have more replies than ever - at least some of which ARE actually relevant Grin. A typical MN thread, I'd have thought.

I know. I think the derailers are insurance salespeople!

OMG! If only! You should see my thread from earlier. I am totally getting ripped off with home insurance today Grin

mbosnz · 05/04/2019 18:15

Oh lord. I used to work in insurance. NEVER AGAIN. I think it's the 8th circle of hell.

extremehydration · 05/04/2019 18:33

Oh lord. I used to work in insurance. NEVER AGAIN. I think it's the 8th circle of hell

Grin Glad you escaped then!

Maybe OP's cousin is taking out his frustration on her as he can't talk back to his customers on the 'phone!

ForalltheSaints · 05/04/2019 18:48

Ask him his views about anti-semitism- does he hold the views of many of the left in the Labour Party? He may be reluctant to talk politics thereafter.

MitziK · 05/04/2019 18:51

Well, you could tell him

'I voted the same as you, so FUCK OFF, you entitled little prick'.

It might quieten down the conversation a tad.

talkingjapeneseireallythinkso · 05/04/2019 18:57

mitzik nicely put, i salute you ! Grin

Livelovebehappy · 05/04/2019 19:03

Don’t engage in political dialogue with people of opposing views. It never ever ends well, and can escalate into a huge battle very quickly.

Poloshot · 05/04/2019 20:15

Sounds like a right prick.

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