Abiu to expect dh to muck in with the dc when he booked holidays off?

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Dh has three days off last week and this week he also has three days of this. Abiu to expect some help with the dc he slept in till 11.30 whilst I do the school run and look after the toddler and clean the house. I don’t so much as get a day off yet he expect to lie in till mid morning. I’m getting to the point I don’t want to be with him anymore but stuck due to financial circumstances and having 3 young dc.

I’ve worked ten hours and hes still expected his tea. I feel trapped in the situation I’m in and if there were no kids in the equation I would be off.

As you rent already ask him to leave. Your landlord wouldn't even have to know you were claiming benefits would they? That solves the housing benefit issue.

Your landlord wouldn't even have to know you were claiming benefits would they?

I think, although it may depend on the area, that if you are council tenant HB is paid direct to your rent account but if you are private or housing association then HB is paid into your bank account.