I am in a dilemma....I am the so called black sheep of the family and have always had a difficult relationship with my mum. I always send cards and presents for major events sometimes she will call and say thank you sometimes not and has on occasion has made out that she received nothing and o my when I have told her I have proof of posting and will get in touch with the post office they miraculously appear. I haven't been to see her for over a year as my MH just can't cope with her and the secrecy and drama. I am 100% better as a person without her in my life....she has disinhereted me and I am happy about it and have told her and my daughter who was present when she said this. Her and my sister have a very close relationship and I am very pleased for them although my mum runs my sister down which upsets me as my sister does everything she can. In the past she used to play us off against each other but I have little contact with either of them So don't get to hear the dramas which is great for me. I don't like phoning my mum because she probes about my personal business asking weird stuff for example how much money I have etc. Anyway me and my hubby are going to buy a property abroad in the next couple of months and will be moving early next year and I really don't know how to broach this with her....I haven't even told my daughter who is married with children as I am worried she will mention this to my mum and she will kick off. I wish things were better between us but they never were and never will.. I have no wish to see her again and I am sure she feels the same so just coming to terms with that really.