Taking my 15yo DS bedroom door... been stealing cigarettes from me (no judgement pls I'm trying to quit) and my neighbour (babysits there), smashing up my house and messing about with spray paint. He's so angry all the time and has smashed holes in the walls, smashed doors and cabinets now. I've tried talking to him but usually just calls me a cut and smashes something else. Most recently it was a plate of dinner at my back door and a phone!
He's been messing about with spray paint in his room at night with all the windows shut, the smell gets everywhere, I asked him if it was a school project or something (gentle approach) was told to F off, so outright asked what he's doing was told to F off again and called a cnt again, a friend of mine died from inhaling gas from aerosol when we were kids and that terrifies me more than his attitude and the smoking. I'm here screwdriver in hand ready to take his door until he shows me, his sibling and my house some bloody respect! AIBU???