To think I was getting the cold shoulder?

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Went out last night with friends from work. Dinner, drinks to watch some footie. Home by 9:30. Got home, DH barely acknowledged me, wouldn't look at me just generally looked pissed off. Wouldn't engage me in conversation. The only response I could get out of him was, could I sort his step mum out some flowers. Same this morning when I left for work. Brought him coffee and barely got a grunt out of him. AIBU to think I can go out with friends without getting this type of treatment.

You shouldn't be sorting out any flowers for him or taking him coffee if he's being like that !

Had a similar situation once. Evening out was proceeded by screaming row about me going out with a group including a man.

We are long separated now and getting divorced....

I should say I had the same cold shoulder afterwards. As you described

I feel your pain. Got in a 9.30pm tonight after going to an exhibition after work with a friend and my partner won’t acknowledge or talk to me either. I know it is a control thing and I have had to develop a thick skin ignore him back. He would rather I was a full time Mum who only left the house to go to work and came straight home every night. I need a social life so continue to go out every now and again. I don’t know about your partner but mine is very hypocritical because it is fine for him to go out whenever he pleases.

I meant 9pm

He plays sport on a Friday night, so I'm home alone. I would never give him the same treatment .....

It is a hard life being with someone like this. He is never happy for me when good things happen to me either. He is competitive and very much into tit for tat. I sympathise but don’t give him attention.

Why are you with men that treat you this way?