I’m fuming as this has happened two consecutive days this week and on each of the days no observations of his activities and learning have been made. I feel it’s an inappropriate and shaming way of communicating with my DH and I who usually enjoy reading the posts during our working day. What would you say to the head of nursery? I’m feeling so PO I’m worried I might make the situation worse.
My DS turned three in January and started at a school nursery. The teacher reported his undesirable behaviour appropriately in the past until about a fortnight ago. It’s a small environment with well trained teachers and there are only 8 kids in his year group, so they are hardly stretched. He’s very active and strong willed but a likeable child. His previous nursery was quite feral and he can struggle to sit still and listen as he’s used to just doing his own thing. His language is quite advanced so it’s not an issue with understanding and we do have good routines at home. There seems to be more expectation for us to “tell him what behaviour is appropriate” rather than understanding what caused it in the moment and coming up with solutions.