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Parents and phones

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jamsandwich456 · 26/03/2019 17:04

Everywhere I look parents are staring at phones when their (often young) children are trying to talk, play and otherwise engage with them. I understand that we need to check our phones sometimes. I also grew up in the analogue era. But it breaks my heart to see this happening every day and all the more because one of my children has significant problems with talking due to her special needs. I would love it if she were chatting to me. I wish parents of typically developing children trying to talk to them could put their phones down and see what's right in front of them.

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theconstantinoplegardener · 26/03/2019 17:29

I agree with you OP, but prepare to be flamed. I regularly see babies pushed in prams by parents who are looking at their phones rather than making eye contact with their DC, or toddlers at playgroup trying to show their parent/ carer something, and being ignored because their grown-up is playing on the phone. I think it's sad and I suspect there will be huge ramifications in terms of behavioural and emotional issues over the next few years. Having said that, I'm glad smartphones weren't around when my DC were little. I hope I wouldn't have been a parent who interacts more with her phone than with her kids, but who knows?

Arowana · 26/03/2019 17:30

YANBU and it makes me sad.

3in4years · 26/03/2019 17:31

Agreed

Pinkbutton85 · 26/03/2019 17:32

I'm currently eating a McDonalds with Matilda on the TV, catching up on my phone ignoring the kids.

It's been a long day.

Otherwise I would agree with you Grin

7circlemats · 26/03/2019 17:41

I agree to an extent but you only see a snapshot of that parents/child's life.

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