DPs mum has text me today asking if I can lend her £20. We have a close relationship and we do get on but I'm getting sick of her asking for money every month. If it's not me she's asking it's my partner.
She doesn't work, she relies on benefits and she knows that me and DP have struggled for money the last few months as we moved into our new house not long ago.
I felt like I was in a really tough situation, I usually say no as most of the time I genuinely don't have it. But she knows I have it now because I recently won some money, not a life changing amount just a few hundred.
To be honest she wasn't really asking she said will I put £20 in her bank account.
I'm so pissed off at myself and her, I gave it to her and then she told me it was for online bingo. She's already maxed out her weekly deposit limit so wanted the money to put in her sons account that he doesn't use.
I don't know what I want from this post but I need to rant a little bit and get it off my chest 
argh!