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Wondering if this could ever be justified

15 replies

springiscomingnow · 24/03/2019 07:50

Screaming at a teenager and dragging her into a place (she didn’t want to go to) by her hair (the teens mother) with some kicks and punches.

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SexNotJenga · 24/03/2019 07:52

I can't think of a situation where that would be the best thing to do, no.

madeyemoodysmum · 24/03/2019 08:08

Dragging her by hair is awful

Icarushasfoundyou · 24/03/2019 08:51

Maybe if it was to save her from death or serious injury? Doubt that's likely though.

LL83 · 24/03/2019 08:53

Really??? You have to ask this here? Just get on with whatever the story is you want to tell. Ffs.

Bluntness100 · 24/03/2019 08:56

Why would you need to ask if physically assaulting someone was ok? How do you not know the answer to this?

thedisorganisedmum · 24/03/2019 08:58

to a police station or psychiatric facility after the mother discovered the secret basement full of left over tortured bodies?

AguerosAngel · 24/03/2019 08:58

If you really have to ask then you have some serious issues! Hmm

Bringbackthestripes · 24/03/2019 08:59

Nope. Not ever. Can’t believe you need to ask if this is justifiable.

HarrysOwl · 24/03/2019 08:59

Why would you need to ask if physically assaulting someone was ok?

This!

NameChangex3 · 24/03/2019 09:00

My mum did that to me once - I'd slammed my bedroom door in her face.

springiscomingnow · 24/03/2019 09:07

I know, but when you grow up with it it is different, somehow. I know it's stupid. Sorry.

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thedisorganisedmum · 24/03/2019 09:12

There are plenty of valid reasons why a parent can reasonably drag a trouble teen somewhere.
Usually not by the hair, and definitively without any punch or kick!

Eliza9917 · 24/03/2019 09:23

What's the full story?

spaniorita · 24/03/2019 09:24

Absolutely fucking not.

CherryPavlova · 24/03/2019 09:29

By the hair unlikely to be ideal. Unless they were attacking a much smaller child or similar.

Dragging out of bed? Into school? Off a roof? Possibly. Teenagers can try the patience of a saint sometimes. Adults need to maintain authority with some teenagers sometimes but violence per se is not generally the answer. It needs to be firm, clear handling outweighed by positive reinforcement of their good behaviours.

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