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Does this make me a bad friend

41 replies

colourfulness · 22/03/2019 16:32

So I had plans on Thursday night for an exercise class with a friend that I asked her to do and I reminded her about it and she had forgotten and said it's up to me to decide if we go then I got back to her and said do you want to leave it, I'm up for going if you are and she had plans to pick up her grandad instead

I'm going out on Saturday night with another friend

Does that make me a bad friend? Would you be annoyed if you were the other friend?

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StealthPolarBear · 22/03/2019 17:35

I definitely have. Very little is making sense.
Reminiscent of Sharon and the wasp.

Lweji · 22/03/2019 17:36

It depends. Have you gone exclusive with the first friend, or are you still seeing other people?

StealthPolarBear · 22/03/2019 17:38

Sharon and the wasp and the wine and the wall

BackforGood · 22/03/2019 17:40

Just posting to see if the OP can sort this out for us.
I'm totally confused about why going out with one friend on a Saturday is, in any way related to a different friend changing her mind about coming to an exercise class on a Thursday.

burritofan · 22/03/2019 17:40

Is the grandad invited on Saturday night?

Starch · 22/03/2019 17:41

It doesn’t make you a bad friend, just a really confusing one. Your mate probably rang Grandad in a state of total befuddlement.

Marriedwithchildren5 · 22/03/2019 17:41

I see what you're saying, in a strange kind of mindset thinking. Youre fine to go out on a different night, with a different friend. Not many people would think if they agree to cancel plans, which you were more than willing not to, that a person should cancel all other plans.

Thats what you're asking? Or does my post actually make no sense??

Springwalk · 22/03/2019 17:46
Confused
gilchrist168 · 22/03/2019 17:47

I'm good for Sunday. and Grandad free.

Cornettoninja · 22/03/2019 17:51

You’re massively overthinking this.

Does this make me a bad friend
Bluntness100 · 22/03/2019 17:56

This makes no sense at all.

Why is you going on on Saturday related to you cancelling with her on Thursday? What is the link?

NinnieNouse · 22/03/2019 17:57

Is the second friend Grandad?

FenellaMaxwell · 22/03/2019 18:00

Hi Sharon! [waves]

FineFanks · 22/03/2019 18:02

Are you high, OP?

NoWittyNamesAvailable · 22/03/2019 18:05

Is this a puzzle we have to piece together ourselves?

ShirleyPhallus · 22/03/2019 18:06

This is a great wind up, this thread could run for pages and pages

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