DP has been grating on my nerves for weeks now, we’ve been together 16 years and have 2 dc. I’ve come to realise the gaslighting and I’ve had just about enough of it. We are supposed to be going to Disneyland Paris this summer and DS knows as he’s has asd and doesn’t like surprises. DP just got pissed off over a non issue and then all of a sudden says he cancelling it. But apparently it’s because of me and he thinks I will struggle because I’m always tired. Dd has been ill all weekend so I’ve had about 6 hours sleep over 3 nights and I said I needed this weekend to rejuvenate and he’s taken that to think I won’t be able to manage Disney land for 5 days. I do have a medical condition that affects pretty much my whole body but I’ve never complained to him, I always go to work, do the school runs etc. I haven’t paid for the holiday only some added extras ( he got the money from all deceased relative) he was the one who wanted to go, been excited for a year and now all of a sudden changes his mind. I’m just worried what it will do to DS who’s very excited (more for the rollercoasters) if he cancels this. I’m not sure where to take it from here but I feel like this is the last straw and I’m sitting here fuming about it....