to wonder how he's this stupid?

[soothiesmoothie]

I've just left an emotionally abusive relationship. It was horrendous and he treated me awfully. I've posted on here before about it. I have a 5 month old. My ex did some pretty nasty things. To his ex too and also his mum.

I've ignored him for the past week as he's continuing to be unreasonable. I'm scared of him and been referred to MARAC. Ive been advised that although he's only been emotionally and not physically abusive, I'm still at risk. To not facilitate any contact. Women's aid, my solicitor and HV have given the same advice.

He's just emailed me to tell me he's 'done nothing wrong' and it's infuriated me. He's emotionally abused me for 2+ years. He's broken me and 2 other women in his life. He's ruined my confidence and beaten me so far in the ground I have no idea how to dig myself out of this awful hole.

And he says he's done nothing wrong? That it's 'not like he was hitting me'. That I should put it in the past and 'forget about it'

How dare he. How can some people be so stupid?

[horrayforharoldlloyd]

Could you message me the title too please @islands81?

OP - there is a group called Mothers United which you might find useful

[Islands81]

Have messaged you @horrayforharoldllyod

[BrandyMyLove]

@Islands81 sorry to be a pain... would you mind messaging me too?

[BrandyMyLove]

Or @horrayforharoldlloyd @soothiesmoothie - I'm going through emotional abuse myself at the moment and could use a shared experience

[horrayforharoldlloyd]

@BrandyMyLove I recommend Mother's United to you too.