Hi, first time posting here as im looking for advice as GPs are awful when it comes to colic, reflux, lactose intolerant and or cma.
Im a third time mum with 3 boys my lo is now 13-weeks old, hes had a rough time as well as myself. He was born at 32 weeks spent 5/6 in neonatal came out for just over a week at home. Had to be taken to A&E eventually found he had strep b sepsis and was in intensive care on antibiotics.
During this time he was mainly on ebm, which I stopped after a couple of weeks when he came home, as I blamed my milk for him geting ill (I know crazy) also expressing reminded me of hospitals.
Anyway he eventually was on nutriprem 2 which he was fine on for over a week, but noticed he was drinking loads sometimes 150ml and feeding every 2 hours then his poo changed to a dark brown green colour, so toik him to the GP as I thought it was gastroenteritis she ask to send a sample off. Well he did not poo in the morning at all and was going 48 hours not going he was crying in pain his gas was foul. Eventuality I got a sample after a week or so. Came back clean.
He was in so much pain I switched to c&g comfort which has less lactose in as I thought he had lactose overload. It got him pooing again and the right yellow colour I know is right for a formula fed baby.
But he was still in pain crying inconsolable after feeds so I switched to aptimil lactose free, which worked for 24hours no crying. Then it started again his poo went back a dark brown green with yellow seeds in. He doesnt cry all the time.
Anyway ended up at children s a&e they thought it might be silent reflux so prescribed me carobel to thicken his milk that wat last Saturday. I am also using infacol before feeds which helps I think he doent cry as much. Unfortunately he now has diarrhea which is bright yellow. Plus lots of wind. So im stopping the carobel as its not nice for him. Im still on lactose free milk.
Wondering if he has cma or silent reflux, I did notice that he felt softer straight away on the LF milk. As he constantly arches his back and sticks legs straight when he crys inconsolably goes red. He is had to burp as he turns his head and arches.
Is this just gas or reflux, I really dont know what to do with his milk, do I ask for neocate and see if it is cma. I have a pediatrician appt in a few weeks it cant come soon enough. He is in pain what do I do. Also fed up of going GP and saying babies cry to me.
Any advice would be greatful for