I'll try keep this short..I fell out with my sister following an argument at my house where she had drunk one to many (Sister gets very strange when she has had a drink.) FYI I can't be sure what exactly she took such significant offence to...the discussion was about Politics. My sister and I have had a really really close relationship since we were kids. It still causes major confusion as I really don't know what happened to cause the argument. You might find this hard to believe....but I really don't!
The only thing I can think of is that I told her what I thought about her partner a few weeks before she came to visit (long story - she's in a very complicated, toxic relationship, and although I have previously kept my opinions to myself about her partner, something happened that made me so angry that I could no longer bite my tongue.) She may have come to see me with a 'goal' to have an argument if that makes sense?
Anyway...back to the story....She tried to get in her car after storming out of the house and refused to speak to me. I was very confused and asked her to talk to me but she refused. I told her that if she attempted to drive I would call the Police. I asked her to come inside and to sleep it off, leaving her fit to drive the next morning. She complied reluctantly (giving me my husband the cold shoulder and a evil stare.) Next morning she refused to speak to me to discuss the situation, and chose instead to be overly affectionate to my 3 year old and then dramatically leaving without allowing me to resolve the issue
She then blocked me from all social media. I called her and left a message, but she did not return my call. A few months later my little boy received a letter from her (I recognised her handwriting and opened the letter - as he is unable to read.) In the letter she talked about the trips that she has been on and included photos of her and her boyfriend. I immediately called her and left another message asking if we could talk,as the letter appeared to be an olive branch. No response.
A few weeks later another letter arrives, with the same kind of stuff written in it....I considered this time that this was really nuts!
I called my mother (who I don't really get on with, to ask if she had any idea what was going on.) I mentioned to my mother about the letters and her response was 'Oh isn't that a sweet thing to do? I hope you read them to ...........(my child).' I promptly replied that I had not read them to my son, as I found the letters quite weird. My mother then said I was being selfish. (which isn't an unusual response from this woman to be honest.)
Just interested to know what everybody's thoughts are about this....