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To wonder why they ask for last period date in A&e

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User70 · 17/03/2019 11:30

I've recently been to A&e when I was being triaged the doctor asked when my last period was. I would have thought if you thought you were pregnant you would inform them.

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Gwenhwyfar · 01/04/2019 00:46

"Lesbians and nuns can be victims of rape and have even been known to have sex with men on occasion."

This is true, but are they forced to have a pregnancy test or treatment will be refused as we've heard happens to other women who say they cannot be pregnant.

Gwenhwyfar · 01/04/2019 00:52

"Why should it be applied to men? What would be the point in that? "

I never said it should be applied to men. I said it was discriminatory that women who have no chance of being pregnant have to suffer a wait for treatment when men do not. A woman who is a virgin or celibate has as much chance of being pregnant as a man.

clairemcnam · 01/04/2019 00:54

I know lesbians who get fed up of this question every time.

I remember going to the Dr unwell and being asked about 5 times if I was sure I couldn't be pregnant. I ended up saying no, unless it was conceived with the help of God.

Fine if you follow up asking if they have sex with a man, but it does seem sometimes as if Drs can not believe that some women don't.

Graphista · 01/04/2019 11:23

Gwen I don't think same episode I think one you're thinking of involves a female dr.

There are certain treatments that are contraindicated if a pregnancy exists not just in terms of potentially ending the pregnancy but also as in the patient being pregnant could make the treatment dangerous so yes withholding certain treatments unless a negative pregnancy test performed makes sense.

clairemcnam · 01/04/2019 11:26

I am amazed that some women lie about not having had sex.
Because it is annoying when you tell a Dr you have not had penetrative sex with a man so could not be pregnant, and they do not believe you.

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