Not having sex

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I'm not sure what's wrong with me. I have an overall good relationship. I wouldn't want to lose my family unit. For 5 months, I just haven't been in 'the mood' to have sex with DP.
We are currently arguing due to the lack of intimacy. He's frustrated and I get it. But when we tried to do it yesterday, it honestly felt like I was being intimate with a brother or something. I tense up and just want him off me and actually ended up shouting at him to get off the other night.

Is there any way to salvage this/come back from this?

Have you even tried to figure out why you might be feeling this way? How old are you? Are you using hormonal birth control? Have you had your thyroid, hormone and vitamin levels checked?

@Aquamarine1029 been to the GP who said it was most likely caused by coming off the mini pill (but that was 6/7 months ago I came off it now). I'm under 25.

Did the GP do a blood draw for a hormone panel?

Do you love him?

It's fixable if you both put the work in. Have a read of come as you are by Emily Nygoski. And get him to read it too.