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To ask who is spending £13 on sanitary products per month?

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avocuddl · 12/03/2019 10:55

Just watching This Morning on period poverty. I appreciate this may be a real issue but I just can't work out the costs stated on the website under 'The Facts' www.freeperiods.org/mission
£18k over a lifetime which equals £13 per month.

The MP said she'd spent £25 on one period?

I buy the always £1 pack and they're fine! A pack of paracetamol is like 20p?

Sorry if this has been done before but aibu?

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Underthemo0n · 12/03/2019 11:54

Disorganised mum, I used to use it too and I agree it is great but I did stop when I read about the link to cancer. Not sure if its still considered a risk. I use cornstarch now which works great.

ZuttZeVootEeeVro · 12/03/2019 11:54

Maybe it includes missing days of work too?

Especially for the self employed and those on zero hour contracts.

PookieDo · 12/03/2019 11:55

Yeah I don’t want to use talc. I use nappy cream

JacquesHammer · 12/03/2019 11:55

Nonsense. You can buy a pack of 20 applicator tampons in Aldi for 65p

Why do these threads end up with people who are unable to comprehend that their period is just that. Not what a period is for every woman.

Before I was on medication there was ONE brand of tampon in ONE absorbency that would give me the ability to be away from a loo for up to ONE hour.

Underthemo0n · 12/03/2019 11:56

PookieDo yes, I use nappy cream too Bepanthan is very soothing!

thedisorganisedmum · 12/03/2019 11:56

TiredTodayZzzz
Oh yes, enjoy whilst it last, unfortunately periods can change drastically through your life. Hopefully you'll never experience any worst.

Grace212 · 12/03/2019 11:57

Jacques yes I had to clench my fists to ignore that poster! Grin

thedisorganisedmum · 12/03/2019 11:57

Underthemo0n
I shall try that, thank you!

Catsandbootsandbootsandcats · 12/03/2019 11:58

I usually go through 3 packs of pads - so depending on special offers between £3 - £8.

I buy at least 2 packs of the fast acting ibuprofen - £1.50 per pack if I can get to Wilkinson otherwise it's around £3 elsewhere. Plus paracetamol as I alternate 2 hourly, but buy the cheapest for 25p.

I carry round a change of clothes - always wear black leggings on my heaviest days so it's not obvious I've had to change because of flooding.

Plus all the extra washing that costs money. I sleep with a towel under me. But it doesn't always work. (I move, towel moves etc)

I can see why it would cost a lot.
And I hate that some people think it doesn't and it can't possibly be a problem because their periods are just fine thank you. (Generic some people, not towards anyone on here)

Crunchycrunchycrunchy · 12/03/2019 12:01

It doesn’t come out with salty water

I'm not having a go, just sharing a good tip i got from my Gran. Pour cold water on the stain and then pour a heap of table salt over it and leave it. The salt pulls out the blood. Then rinse and wash like normal.
Rather than soaking it in actual salt water. Works a treat although I've never used it for large stains.

BarbarianMum · 12/03/2019 12:01

It's rare that refusal to provide your daughter w adequate sanitary protection is solely down to lack of money LittleOwl

Skittlesss · 12/03/2019 12:02

Sorry to kind of hijack but one poster said they use Tena lady - do these work? I have terrible periods and have to put two night time pads on because they don’t seem long enough - the blood just goes everywhere. It depresses me and I dread going to the loo or showering.

Also, the chafing! I thought this was just me being fat, but I’m glad I’m not alone. After a while it chafes so bad. I wear 2 lots of knickers to stop the pads dropping down but it still makes me sore Blush

I’ve tried the coil - no joy. Can’t take hormonal treatment as I have a condition (hormones make it worse).

Calledyoulastnightfromglasgow · 12/03/2019 12:03

I use reusable pads.

LHMB · 12/03/2019 12:03

FleeceDetective that’s very true. I don’t drive and my nearest supermarkets are Morrison’s and Tesco which are not walking distance. Due to severe panic and anxiety disorder and social anxiety, I can’t use buses and taxis so my closest shop is Spar, which charges a fortune for stuff that you can get the same price in the big supermarkets, plus you get twice as much for the same price. Convenience stores always seem more expensive. I sometimes have to rely on DP to take me to the supermarket or pop in on his way home from work. It makes me feel so useless.
On another note, does anyone else find Always sanitary towels can cause irritation, even thrush?

Nousernameforme · 12/03/2019 12:04

If i have to pay corner shop prices my period can easily cost £13 if not more its 2.99 2.29 if price marked, for a pack of always ultra super duper night long ones. The first three days i have to double up and change frequently. After that its another 4/5 days of lighter bleeding.

£1 a pack supermarket ones you are still talking at least a fiver. If you struggle day in day out finding an extra fiver isnt easy

GandolfBold · 12/03/2019 12:04

I use lillets because I cant stand tampax and those applicators. I use a box every 2 days. I have tried using own brand and I leaked everywhere. Had to pop to Sainsburys and buy new knickers/jeggings and babywipes. Was so embarrassing and expensive. My periods last between 9 and 11 days.

DaisyYellow · 12/03/2019 12:04

How about £10 for a taxi home when you realise you have a heavily blood stained crotch, even though you doubled up on tampons and used a towel? Stupid me for thinking triple protection meant I could wear blue jeans out the house for a couple of hours.

mirime · 12/03/2019 12:05

I can see how it would add up.

Before the Mirena I had unpredictable periods and I've always had painful ones.

Ibuprofen with Codeine, even generic is about £5, I might take paracetamol as well, though that can be pennies. The cheap pads irritate me and tend to be no good for a heavier flow, and with the huge variation in my periods I was having to keep panty liners, normal and night pads around as I didn't know how bad it would be.

Lots of extra washing of bedding (who knew my period was going to show up a week early! and so on...). Had to shampoo my carpet after I flooded right through a night pad in 20 minutes. Had to wash cushions as well. Two showers a day, sometimes three. Extra change of clothes.

Glitterblue · 12/03/2019 12:05

£3 on pads for me, £4 on a bad month. I get prescription painkillers but have a prepayment card and get asthma a migraine meds as well

sollyfromsurrey · 12/03/2019 12:06

Another thread that makes it clear how not middle class MN is. Aldi? Own brand? I'm pretty sure the vast majority of middle calss women buy Lilets or Always or some other main brand. Anyway, the article wasn't about how cheap you could make things, it was about average costs.

LittleOwl153 · 12/03/2019 12:07

@bellinisurge its an interesting/hard one. Reusable ones - I absolutely unerstand. I use them myself and cloth nappied my kids - however people who need foodbanks are often not in the position to store and wash such things so then become a waste. We looked at doing something with the girls at the college with the textile dept but the general feeling was that they were yukky, the girls didnt think they could use them and generally they didnt think that the would get the support at home to wash them. Sadly it is still a niche market!

In terms of disposables and the foodbank. I can only tell you what happens with ours. Across 3 centres, in 2 quite different areas we are donated far more than we can reasonably store let alone anyone takes. We have ended up donating to the colleges and also the RedBox scheme to redistribute. Therefore I can see why your offer has been turned down. If I were going to direct your donation in this area (i.e. non-food) it would be to non-scented toiletries - they type men can use as well (We get a fair amount of fancy ladies stuff after christmas etc), or suggest you contact RedBox and donate through them.

Anyway sorry to Hyjack OP!!

UndersAndOvers · 12/03/2019 12:07

According to this podcast the figure is just for tampons and towels and is based on a survey of women estimating what they spent. They also worked out the figure is more likely to be £3

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p05y1jpq]

JellycatElfie · 12/03/2019 12:07

I don’t have any reason for heavy periods as far as I know but ..
2 boxes of tampons maybe £6 as I can’t use crap brands
1 pack pads £2
Paracetamol and ibuprofen £2
Heat pads for severe pain £3

WhatNow40 · 12/03/2019 12:07

Slightly off topic. Male prisoners are provided with shaving equipment free of charge as it's been established as a human right for a man to shave. Female prisoners have to buy their san pro, inc VAT.

Period poverty IS an issue, and not just a maths/budget/affordability problem. So many other issues that impact on women, families and poverty are impacting on the availability of san pro. I work with young people affected. Here are real examples told to me.

Single parent, 2 daughters. Yr11 and Yr9. All got their period within 2 days of each other. Common occurrence. Mum worked zero hours contract, paid weekly. Yr11 doing mock GCSEs that week. Only 2 towels left, no money till pay day. If mum doesn't go to work, they have no food next week. Yr9 daughter stayed at home as oldest had priority over the remaining sanitary towel due to her exams.

Yr7 girl shared custody arrangement with mum and dad following very volatile split. Dad earned significantly more than mum but did not have to pay maintenance as 50/50 split. Mum less skilled as had taken time out to have kids, 2 younger siblings. Unable to get full time hours so working minimum wage for 3 days p/w. Dad would not buy clothes, toys, essentials for kids on 'his' days. Mum put her foot down after months of EA and refused to let the kids take anything other than 1 set of PJs each. School uniform was not being provided by dad. Mum got CB, he argued she should pay. The YR7 girl never once felt able to ask her dad to buy san pro, not when he wouldn't even buy uniform. Mum thought she was standing up for herself, not throwing her daughter under the bus. Daughter won't tell mum as doesn't want more rows.

Chaotic lifestyle where essentials like food, washing powder and san pro were not prioritised as purchases by parents. Drug and alcohol issues and social services involved. Always a pile of socks left in the bathroom for using when needing to have a poo. It was expected that 3 primary and secondary age girls should use the socks to improvise for their periods too. They had poor attendance at school and one said to me she could not risk the humiliation of leaking, smelling and being found out.

Providing free san pro at school is a human rights issue. The right to equal access to education. So many girls miss school because they don't have the fundamental basics they need to manage a biological function, one that places them at a disadvantage to their male peers.

PookieDo · 12/03/2019 12:08

It is sensible to wear black and sit on a blanket when you have a period but not all periods come exactly when you expect. Also despite doing all of these things it’s not failsafe

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