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I think my child is a socialist?

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brokenheartedbattleostrich · 12/03/2019 02:49

My son has just turned 15, and recently he has been coming home from school telling me how he has been learning lots about socialism. Since this started happening, we have been arguing nonstop. He doesn't seem to let anything go. Whenever I try to talk about work at the dinner table (in fairness, I am a banker), he can't go 5 minutes without getting angry at me and disrupting the meal. I understand what he is going through, he's not the only one to have a lefty phase - I had mine at university! That being said, I'm worried that he's going down a bad path, and that his behaviour is going to become a real problem. God forbid I take him into waitrose! If anyone has any advice, do share.

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Hedgehogblues · 12/03/2019 02:51

Um...this is a joke, right?

NameChangeNugget · 12/03/2019 02:52

He’ll grow out of it when he has responsibilities.

ApplestheHare · 12/03/2019 02:58

What are your arguments about? Though to be fair at 15 it's probably not about the subject matter, more him finding his own identity and establishing independence.

Tavannach · 12/03/2019 02:59

Congratulations!

brizzlemint · 12/03/2019 03:54

Listen and learn.

Gone4Good · 12/03/2019 04:20

Send him to Venezuela for his hols.

Wallsbangers · 12/03/2019 04:21

Must be so difficult. He might grow up to be someone that cares about other people.

UnexpectedButExpected · 12/03/2019 04:23

He’ll grow out of it when he has responsibilities.

Funniest comment of the thread so far Grin

Monty27 · 12/03/2019 04:28

Don't give up your day job OP!
ConfusedConfused

BeGoodTanya · 12/03/2019 05:21

You’re a banker, and you’re afraid he’s going to go down a bad path?

MeetMeInMontauk · 12/03/2019 05:34

0/10

IdaBWells · 12/03/2019 05:43

You are unlikely to be able to take him to Venezuela as most international airlines don't fly there anymore due to the seriousness of the situation. Some pulled out a few years back. Over 3 million people have left, often on foot as a month's wages will not buy you a bus ticket due to inflation at 1,000,000% and money being worthless.

brizzlemint · 12/03/2019 06:04

Is banker rhyming slang ?

mimibunz · 12/03/2019 06:08

brizzlemint Lol!

topcat2014 · 12/03/2019 06:28

My father sold his business, (which had given well paid IT jobs to 30 people for 10 years) when I was 15, and moved into a large Victorian house.

The day we moved in, I said "Do you feel guilty for having so much money"

I still cringe about it now.

LegitimateShite · 12/03/2019 06:32

“Lefty phase”.Grin

Because no adults are left wing. None at all.

Biancadelrioisback · 12/03/2019 06:35

Left is just a phase. We all know the right way Wink

BabyDarlingDollfaceHoney · 12/03/2019 06:38

Sounds like you could learn a lot from him.

Thishatisnotmine · 12/03/2019 06:38

I have socialist leanings. When I was 15 though I decided I was absolutely anti capitalist. Apart from when I wanted some new Nike trainers for PE. And I forgot all about the plight of Cambodian workers when I was bought a GAP denim jacket.

OP, have you only just realised you have a teenager?

NaughtToThreeSadOnions · 12/03/2019 06:40

Is banker rhyming slang ?

Yup and in this case partically fitting esp. As i suspect op is male

GertrudeCB · 12/03/2019 06:41

I like the cut of his jib.

CleanAndPaidFor · 12/03/2019 06:43

Are you a bit bored BrokenHearted?

Mumsymumphy · 12/03/2019 06:47

Maybe he's just learned at school that bankers are one of the reasons this country is on its knees and he thinks you're one of them.

I think it's great when teenagers have a bit of oomph about them and they should most definitely start to question things. Leaders of the future!

ALannisterInDebt · 12/03/2019 06:51

Is banker rhyming slang ?

Grin
onemorecupofcoffeefortheroad · 12/03/2019 06:52

Don't talk about things that are likely to cause arguments like your job. Sounds like you are deliberately trying to wind him up. My father used to do this to me when I began to show left wing tendencies (which turned out not to be a phase). Thought he knew better and would smugly try and wind me up.
He's moderated his view now and we are close but I always thought why could he not just be pleased that I showed an interest in politics unlike many of my 15 year old peers.
I have a very left leaning son and I don't always agree with his view but I respect it.

Don't be adversarial - respect his viewpoint and be happy your son is taking an interest in politics.