Right let me give you some background.
My dd2 13, has learning disabilities which includes concentration, memory, processing problems, dyslexia, dyspraxia and her levels of understanding are not that of a 13 year old.
Ex dp, has never asked for any information or enquired as to how she is doing and never seems interested.
Shes just started her periods which are erratic, she gets very stressed and has a tendency to shout at people and usually requires time to process stuff and calm down.
Ex dp seems to be completely disregarding her issues..along with the fact she is only 13 and going through puberty.
He is negative towards her, i said she will settle down a bit once through puberty, as ive already done this with dd1 17.
Everything he says about is negative. He wont make an effort to connect on her level, she gets bored very quickily. He shouts at her all the time and has once told her to fuck off. She does tend to hold grudges and unfortunately that is now stuck in her head and she tends to stay in her room when ever he comes round.
She has told me she doesnt like dad and all he does is shout at me, ive tried to tell him he needs to make quality time for her. He cannot just expect her to sit in a room doing nothing, take her out.
She has many good qualities which he fails to take notice off. Aibu in asking him to try to connect with his youngest child and not just show her only him shouting or telling her off.