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To ask DP why he's done this?

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cmjwx · 09/03/2019 02:01

DP fell asleep with his phone on the bed instead of putting it on charge.

I never usually do this/haven't done it in a long long time, but I looked through his phone.

On fb messenger app in the search bar a girl came up who he used to see every now and then (think FWB type). This was complicated as his DM was best friends with her mother and they grew up together, but nobody knows that they've slept together on numerous occasions except me.

Then on Instagram he'd searched for another a girl, one he knew back in primary school.

I know i might just be overreacting but do I ask him about this? Feeling very hormonal due to pregnancy and paranoid SadSad

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BorsetshireBlew · 09/03/2019 06:56

I'd be furious if a partner looked at my search history and expected me to explain myself. Fuck that.

adaline · 09/03/2019 07:08

Jeez. My search history on Facebook is full of random people from my past - I'm not about to go and cheat with any of them though - it's just nosiness.

Like PP I would be really angry if someone took it upon themselves to read my phone like that. I have nothing to hide but I have private conversations on there with my friends about their personal issues and they're none of my husbands business.

Why did you snoop? All you've done is uncover something you're not happy about and now there's nothing you can do to put your mind at ease because you'll have to admit you don't trust your partner.

FredFlinstoneMadeOfBones · 09/03/2019 07:19

God I search for all kinds of people whwn I'm bored including ex boyfriends. I wouldn't give it a second thought unless he's been sending messages or doing something else to make you feel insecure.

Joebloggswazere · 09/03/2019 07:34

Also another one that searches exes, purely out of nosiness curiosity. I don’t miss them and I’m definitely not unhappy with my partner, it’s purely something to do. One ex in particular I check in on because I was awful and broke his heart when I left, so I like to see that he’s happy and doing well as it eases my guilt!

Shoxfordian · 09/03/2019 08:22

Yeah you were wrong to snoop about on his phone and you know that really. Don't say anything and don't do it again op without any good reason

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