So basically we currently live in a terrace house which we rent through a letting agent, I'm having some issues from our neighbour.
It all started with her sending me a Facebook message request on a Sunday afternoon asking me to keep the banging down as it was disturbing her dog ( we were cleaning our conservatory carpet) I didn't actually reply as if I'm honest i just didn't know what to put & I totally didn't think 2pm on a Sunday afternoon was an unreasonable time to clean our carpet.
Fast forward a couple of weeks we had an inspection of the house ready to renew our tenancy & the letting agent informed me they have had a phone call from ndn seeing if they could help as apparently i slam doors and shut my kitchen cupboards too loudly. And it's got to the point now EVERYTIME I hoover she bangs on the wall loudly straight after, it doesn't matter what time I hoover it could be 2pm or 6pm. For context she's a single lady who works from home, im a stay at home to a 17mo.
I'm the first to admit i do shut doors as if i don't 1 the entire contents of my daughters toy box would be down the toilet and 2 I don't like her in the kitchen if I'm in another room as she presses all the buttons on the washing machine etc. So my question is AIBU for making normal day to day noise? Literally all i do is look after my daughter, cook and clean all normal daily things. any advice of what I can say to her if she messages me again? It's starting to make me feel like a prisoner in my own home & it's embarrassing the fact she rang the letting agents as I like to think we are good tenants.