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To be surprised at adults not knowing most museums are free?

260 replies

FelineFatale · 03/03/2019 11:37

I've met recently at least four people who didn't know this. One said they didn't take their children to museums because they can't afford it and the other three just thought you had to pay.

I'm close to two of these people and when I said I was amazed they didn't know this they stated most people think you have to pay for museums.

They don't, surely?!

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notanothernam · 03/03/2019 13:42

(Sorry my earlier post should day balance between preservation and access, not presentation!)

ElloBrian · 03/03/2019 13:45

Well like I said, it’s an unpopular opinion. Am not going to take on a bunch of you about it.

notanothernam · 03/03/2019 13:50

@ElloBrian it's not an unpopular opinion, it's an understandable one, I think it's good you're questioning why things are the way they are! It gets asked a lot actually as to why so much is behind the scenes. Just trying to explain why it is the way it is.

Gwenhwyfar · 03/03/2019 13:52

"Lots of museums have a room for indoor picnics too, if the weather is crap."

Never seen this in my life.

luckylavender · 03/03/2019 13:53

You're sounding a little patronising OP. I was surprised the other day that some of my co-workers didn't understand the fact that Lent & Easter being late are linked.

Helplessfeeling · 03/03/2019 14:00

From the OP:I think what surprised me is to not realise any museums are free, you must've rarely been to museums and even if you live somewhere where they aren't free, that means you've rarely left your neighbourhood. "

I think your post is just an excuse to be judgey!

I think you are bang on the money there!

Bittermints · 03/03/2019 14:02

Making the national collections free wasn't a new thing under the Blair government. It reversed a Tory policy to make them all charge for admission. They had been free from at least the end of WW2 to the early 80s.

FuzzyShadowChatter · 03/03/2019 14:05

As much as I love museums, I think it's a little ridiculous - and a bit sheltered - to think people not knowing some museums are free means they've "rarely left their neighbourhoods". Most people don't have museums in their neighbourhoods. Hell, having a library is getting to be a rarity. There are plenty of other ways one can spend one's time in and out of one's neighbourhoods. I really don't get this idea that museum attendance, particularly with young kids, is any sort of measure of how sheltered someone is or how much they travel. I tend to visit in bursts - quite a few times for a few months, then it feels like a faff and we stop for a bit until something new is advertised and repeat.

Of the museums currently open near me, a couple are free though regularly have events that have entry fees and the rest are always paid entry. The ones that are free are part of a trust which gets some state funding for the time being but are working towards self-sufficiency meaning they have also pushed for other ways to make money - pretty much all the museums have expanded their gift shops, added cafes (and not allowing outside food), have more paid events, and regularly advertise themselves as being available to rent for events for everything from chilli festivals to retro game days to weddings plus more donation boxes and signs put up about public donation from this place or that.

In the next city over, it's at least £30-40+ for family entry to most of the museums, though some have small free exhibition rooms and cheaper short events. One recently, it was £25 rather than 45, but only in a few rooms for less than an hour, but there were performers and my kids talked about it for ages.

Not everyone lives where museums are free and not everyone wants to go to museums or travel to get to a free one. While I enjoy museums sometimes, I also enjoy and think there is great value in riverside and forest walking which is more often free, but I don't expect everyone to know where the public paths and forests are.

joyfullittlehippo · 03/03/2019 14:05

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sleepylittlebunnies · 03/03/2019 14:07

We live in a small English city about 4 hours from London. None of our museums are free. DC’s favourite museum used to be free and we went at least once a month but they have started charging last year, it’s now £7.50 for a family ticket so not expensive but it only takes at most an hour to go round it.

Just checked other local museum websites in case things have changed, the cider museum is £15 but again average stay is only 2 hours. Waterworks museum is now free for kids and £7 per adult. I used to pay for DC, this is somewhere you can take a picnic and play outside so can be a half day out.

Our cathedral is the only place that is free, we frequently visit, they have had several events and exhibitions there that have also been free.

For a free day out most families around here go for walks and picnics in the local woodlands. We are quite rural so for a cheap day out one of the cheap farm parks are good value for money.

Due to our location when travel costs are taken into account it would be cheaper for us to travel to a free museum in Wales than London.

JumpOrBePushed · 03/03/2019 14:08

It’s free to enter Durham Cathedral, although they do charge for entry to one or two things (an exhibition and a tour of one of the towers).
There are of course several donation boxes with a suggested donation, but there wasn’t any pushiness about getting visitors to donate when we went.

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Usingmyindoorvoice · 03/03/2019 14:09

I found this on money saving expert, www.moneysavingexpert.com/deals/free-museums-and-art-galleries/
I was surprised how many are free, but Northern Ireland does look like the poor relation compared to other parts of Britain.

MrsWombat · 03/03/2019 14:10

Lots of museums have a room for indoor picnics too, if the weather is crap."
Never seen this in my life.

Some of the London museums I've been to open up where the schools eat outside during holidays and weekends. Colchester Zoo has indoor eating areas. The Tank Museum in Dorset has indoor eating areas. Considering museums are seen as rainy day activities it's a good selling point, especially if located near to coffee and ice cream kiosks.

Lockheart · 03/03/2019 14:10

@ElloBrian it's not an unpopular opinion, it's just that it's completely impossible.

squeezysparklyballs · 03/03/2019 14:13

Some people, assume that anything 'posh' or middle class (which is how some people view anything educational) is expensive. They'll look at the outside of a free museum and think "that looks posh, must cost loads" and carry on to the £5 a head soft play down the road...

Btw, we go to both soft play and museums, regularly.

Whereareyouspot · 03/03/2019 14:14

OP you are very patronising

I am educated and my kids are smart but we just don’t much enjoy museums.

Have been to some but don’t seek them out unless we are at a loose end and have been to more we haven’t enjoyed than have

Doesn’t make us inferior to you - there are other ways of learning and other cultural activities

I think you are a huge snob

megletthesecond · 03/03/2019 14:19

bsc the science museum funnel visitors into a queue and ask for a donation at the desk (a fiver iirc). I politely refuse. It costs us enough to get to London and I always buy the dc's a book each in the book shop of every museum we've never been in which is why we have too many books.
I do usually pop a donation in after visits, but it depends how long we've been and whether dd has had a meltdown and cut it short.

clairemcnam · 03/03/2019 14:19

I love going to museums and live near a City. You have to pay for all museums where I live.

noideaatallreally · 03/03/2019 14:20

Jassy - I don't feel like a freeloader going to a cathedral service for free during a service as I am a person of faith. I am also just as interested in the people and the worship as I am in the buildings. For me, there is nothing better than seeing a church or temple or gudwara being used for the purpose for which it was built.

Aberforthsgoat · 03/03/2019 14:21

Most of the museums I go to are free in theory but all the exhibitions have an admission fee

Excited101 · 03/03/2019 14:22

Loads of museums aren’t free!

Uptheapplesandpears · 03/03/2019 14:26

There are enough musuems that aren't free for it not to be at all surprising that people are aware of this. And even the free ones can be unaffordable, if you need to travel and you're worried about being able to get the kids through the inevitably prominent gift shop without them kicking off.

I live in a city that isn't London that has several free museums, but it still costs money when we go, not all of which is optional.

Uptheapplesandpears · 03/03/2019 14:32

In terms of museums not showing stuff, I would personally be willing to pay for entry to eg an overspill of the Museum of Natural History's stuff. I am in the north and there's not a shortage of land here. I don't know whether it would be a feasible model but it's an opportunity I for one would be glad of in my area.

TalkinPeece · 03/03/2019 14:35

In terms of museums not showing stuff, I would personally be willing to pay for entry to eg an overspill of the Museum of Natural History's stuff.
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